What is it like like to date an extremely attractive woman?

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I’ve dated a variety of extremely attractive women in my life, starting when I was about 19. Like anything, it has its ups and downs. What do I mean?

The upside:

  • Having a drop-dead gorgeous woman on your arm just feels good. It also seems to make people admire you more for having landed her. More respected, I guess.
  • Life is more fun and exciting when you’re super attracted to your partner. It does wonders for your esteem and outlook to be with a woman you find insanely attractive. Your body will typically be flooded with endorphin and other happy chemicals.
  • You’ll be horny a lot more. Sex is generally good because you’re just so attracted and into to her. Sometimes you’ll just look at her and go crazy with lust. And that’s a lot of fun.
  • Other women are more open to you—in their minds, if you landed her; you must have it going on.
  • You’ll get into trendy clubs a lot more easily.

The downside:

  • Guys are always—and I mean always—trying to steal her away from you. One woman I dated had so many guys after her that I couldn’t go to the bathroom at a restaurant or bar without someone trying to talk to her. I learned to hold my pee for ridiculously long periods of time. Sometimes they apologized and left when I came back. Sometimes they didn’t, which brings me to my next point…
  • Be prepared to fight from time to time. Drunken guys will make asses of themselves. One sent a letter on a napkin to our table asking her what she had on underneath her dress and if she wanted to go to the bathroom and show him. You can’t let that just slide; you have to call them out on it. Sometimes they will stand down… other times, they won’t. It’s the price you pay.
  • Being with a super-attractive woman can blind you to the fact that you’re actually a terrible match together. This happened to me a few times. I once managed to waste both of our time for 6+ months until one day it dawned on me what a really horrible couple we made. Another woman I dated had a smoking hot body but was a miserable person who for the most part, only wanted to make her partner miserable, too. I stayed with her way too long because of that body and the amazing sex we had.
  • Be prepared to spend some cash. Hot women know they have options, and want their guys to treat them like queens. Most won’t settle for pizza and a beer, but if you find one that does, hold on to her. The majority of really hot women expect fine dining and trips to exotic places. They also want to be seen in a really nice car. Ka-ching!
  • Some really hot chicks think being physically beautiful is enough. They don’t feel like they have to be really intelligent, conversational, have a great personality… too many just rely on their appearance. Do your best to avoid these women like the plague?
  • They know they have options. Because there are a thousand guys in line to take your place, they are typically harder to keep than a more normally attractive woman.

Having dated both, I can tell you this—even the most drop-dead woman will grow old if massive physical attraction is all there is to the relationship. However, even the most average woman will only get prettier over time if you share a true connection.

Errol Greene

Quora

 

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